My funny and beautiful Mom turned 80 this past March. In honor of her on Mother’s day, I would like to share some of her mommy wisdom, once again. Though we didn’t always see eye to eye, her words are worth their weight in gold. Thanks Mom for caring. I love you.
1. This too shall pass. It annoyed me endlessly when she said this, but it’s probably the best advice she ever gave me and I tell my kids the same thing. Time heals most wounds (or at least it dulls the pain). And in the case of something embarrassing, people have short attention spans. I can barely remember what happened yesterday, so I know this is true.
2. Pinch your cheeks. Everyone looks better with a rosy glow. My mom never spent a dime on blush, she just pinched. Many years (and broken capillaries) later, it was worth it. I don’t have to buy blush either. Think of the money I’m saving.
3. You could use some lipstick and while you’re at it, brush your hair. For a person with kinky curly frizzy hair who didn’t have a clue about hair gel, this was more of a curse. She really just wanted us to look our best before we walked out the door, (“You never know who you’re going to meet!”). To this day, I feel naked without lipstick. It’s the frizzy hair I’m still struggling with.
4. They’re just jealous. When someone was mean to me at school, this was her go-to line. Even if it wasn’t true, it made me feel better. I say this to my kids. They’re buying it too.
5. It needs a little salt. My mother is a good old fashioned cook. Most of her recipes came right of out the shtetl (little Eastern European towns where cholesterol meant nothing either). It’s amazing we didn’t have clogged arteries in our twenties. I try to eat healthy, so when she reaches for the trough of Mayo or butter, I have to look away. However, if she says something needs a little salt, she’s probably right.
6. Anyhoo. My mom’s favorite word when she wants to change the subject or avoid a confrontation. Completely crazy and lighthearted (the word, not my mom), it never fails to put a smile on my face.
7. Don’t run, you’re going to hurt yourself. As a kid, I was a super fun combination of klutzy and foolish, so we had our share of emergency room visits. Practically every time I moved, she thought I was going to poke an eye out. Twenty years later that almost happened during a rambunctious “Head, shoulders, knees and toes,” but that’s another story.
8. Your face is going to freeze like that. I was the queen of funny faces. I could make my eyeballs shake and flare my nostrils on command. As you can imagine, my parents were very proud.
9. Put on a sweater, I’m cold. I promised myself I would never say this to my kids, but I do. At least I no longer remind them to pee before they leave the house.
Anyhoo…Happy Mother’s Day!
Any words of wisdom from your mom you’d like to share?
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My mother always told me to put on a little lipstick too! One of her best pieces of advice was to “look people in the eye and give a firm handshake.” I tell my kids the same thing, sometimes with an elbow in a rib if they’re off their game.
I like that Pauline! I’ve always told my kids that too.
Timeless. Moms everywhere must have had a meeting so they all learned the exact same sayings! Not only did my mom remind me to always put on lipstick and brush my hair, I was instructed to never forget to put in earrings. I guess it completed the look in her mind. I still feel a little naked without them!
My mom wouldn’t let me get my ears pierced until I was a teenager (actually, I begged my ENT to talk my mom into saying “Yes” while at my post-tonsillectomy checkup – I was almost 15). I feel naked without them too!
Love it all! When my mom planned a surprise 16th bday party for me I should have listened when she said to put a little make-up on… She had taken me out of the house for some errands and when we were driving back to the house to this amazing surprise party, she kept saying just put on a little, I wouldn’t listen… So needless to say, I entered the party no make-up and well… enough said.
Thanks, Donna! Wow, after that experience I don’t know if I’d ever leave the house again without being camera-ready 30 days before or after my birthday. Just in case!
Your mom sounds like she knows a lot about life! I also say, “they’re just jealous” to my daughter. Anyhoo, Happy Mother’s Day!
Love this! My mom used to practically chase us with brush to make sure we went out with smoothe hair! She also always told me to dress up when traveling bc you never know who you might run into! And yes, I do this. Sigh.
So true! I still ask my kids if they have to go to the bathroom, but they are in preschool so I think it’s stil ok:) I’m going to have to incorporate “anyhoo” into daily life, it could really fill a gap for me!
Jessica
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Thank you for the comments. Hope you all had a wonderful Mother’s Day. Jessica, it wasn’t that long ago that I stopped asking my kids, purely out of habit, and mine are older!
My mum always says, “God don’t like ugly” and boy, did that make us behave. It is applicable today too and she adds, “God does not sleep” so I never sweat the small stuff. Thanks for passing through my blog.
All good classic mom lines. My mom’s best line that I used with my own daughter was, “I don’t argue with children.”
I always tell my daughter “you never know who you’re going to meet.” She rolls her eyes at me, too!
So funny…and all good advice. I admit to using the “put on a sweater, I’m cold” manouevre on my own kids, too.
These made me laugh because I think my mom said every one of them! We still tease her about telling us to put on sweaters because she’s cold! Thanks for sharing these and bringing back so many great memories (and reminding me that I may be turning into my mother!)
What wonderful “mom lines”, Linda. I think I’ve said all of them to my kids! Fun post.
Are you sure we don’t share the same mom? I heard many of the same things from my mom!
Wonderful post and I love the photo – nice hats!
What a great set of Mom phrases. My kids will probably grow up to complain that I talked way too much about their digestive system. “Don’t eat too much chocolate. It’s binding!” I have already promised to subsidize their therapy bills.
The benefit of repeating ourselves to our kids is that they have a wonderful list of mom-isms to take with them in life. Waht a fantastic photo of the two of you – love the hats and smiles!
These were funny….and made me wonder what repetitive phrases my children associate with me. I hope they’re as good as these.
OMG you should really look at one of the pics in my post, we look very much alike. It’s the hair I think! “Your face is gonna freeze like that” I heard that sooo many times and esp when I’d stick my tongue out at her, she’s say it was gonna be like that forever, and the eye roll, LOL.
My mother still uses the “they’re just jealous” line with me, and it works every single time. Great post – thank you!!
I love all of the advice. The “don’t run, you might hurt yourself” reminds me of a funny story my husband always tells me about the time he ran into a wire fence after his mother just finished yelling at him to stop. My husband didn’t listen as a child, and he still doesn’t LOL. Great post, and smart mom! I’ll have to try the pinching. I could use a little colour.
Linda, I love this! And my mom had many of the same sayings!
Anyhoo…now that I’m stealing!
Thank you for some wonderful memories!
Your mom sounds adorable! I love the “anyhoo.” And also “Put on a sweater, I’m cold.” I’m going to try to remember that one.
These were all great! The scary thing is, they remind me of me! (Except for the lipstick part – I just never got used to that!)
These all sound familiar with exception of no. 7. Instead of “Don’t run,” my mom always said, “Go run!” She encouraged me to pursue my love of sports at a time when society still frowned on athletic girls.
If she’s going with me, I still remind my 20 year old daughter to use the bathroom before we leave. *eye roll* My mom’s most often heard advice was “If you don’t expect anything, you won’t be disappointed.” True, but how depressing!
Oh I like anyhoo! My mom also said the lipstick comment a lot. Love the photo too – reminds me of the 70s.
I say “Anyhoo” all the time. It’s a great segue. The sweater thing is very funny, too!
Whenever I was in an argument with someone, my mom would ask me their side of the story. It would infuriate me because I thought she never took my side. Now I see the wisdom and try to get my kids to see the other side.
You made me chuckle…especially on #9.
My favorite though is #2 – just a pinch!
Wonderful advice, all! All winter long, I tell my kids to put more clothes on, seeing as how I am freezing. They are, too, they just don’t know it.
As for the bathroom, I stopped doing that. Once, before leaving the house, I asked everyone if they had gone to the bathroom, as we were going to track practice and there weren’t any bathrooms there. Thirty minutes later, when we got to the track, I discovered that one of the kids had gone to the bathroom after the reminder, and I had accidentally left him at home.
TALU
my mom always told me to roll on my backside…… i guess she thought it was too round!
My mom used to tell me “This Too Shall Pass” as well. Another one of her favorites: “When the world leaves you behind, your family will always be there.” So thankful for moms who hang in there through thick and thin.
So she wouldn’t buy (or use ) blush but she loved the lipstick! Oh, the vain ironies of life. Love it!
I think, except the lipstick, I’ve said every single thing to both my daughters, very young women now and I’m only 50. There must be a book somewhere with momisms that the original mom wrote and passed down generation after generation or what we say as moms just makes sense.
Although I do say, don’t mess around, you’ll poke someone’s eye out. I’m not sure why since they could be wrestling with a workout ball but hey, it get’s their attention.